Time Flies

One day they are babies that rely on you for everything. The things that could make them smile were simple, and a clean diaper and full belly made them happy. As they grow they become complicated to amuse, and difficult to understand, then they become adults. I remember when each of my kids were born, very vividly. The details of some of the things they used to do have faded some. As time passes and they have grown, their individuality and differences only enhance their beauty.

As kids we don't see this, we don't appreciate the difference between ourselves and others. We rely on our peers and parents to build our self image and self esteem to some extent. A child needs something they are good at, can be proud of, and something that makes them feel special. That thing for Julie right now is ballet. She had her performances this weekend and did awesome. She was proud of herself, and we were proud of her too. I think Tyler might have even been proud of her, but he won't admit it. In her hands now rests the choice of continuing with it next year or not. Tyler's thing has been soccer for going on 3 years now, he loves it. Is getting good at it, and is proud of himself for his accomplishments. I think every child needs something they take pride in. A bonus to the things that they love? It keeps them active.

This summer Julie wants to try something different, we told her she absolutely could. Maybe she'll do both next year since she doesn't play a sport, but we'll have to see how it goes. Tyler has mentioned wanting to get into Hockey, which I think is cool. We've looked but have had little success in finding out when or if they offer Hockey around here.

Soon they will be more interested in their friends and activities then family. Right now, they love the attention that being in other activities gets them. Soon it will just be about their friends and the art or competition. As of now, as a parent I feel like I am helping them be well rounded. Dedication to an art or sport adds to their focus on their studies.

The baby has yet to find something she enjoys more then putting things in her mouth. This too will pass from crawling and babbling, to walking and talking. The years from infancy to adulthood pass by so quickly. Enjoy every moment of them, because time flies.